Hello!
I’m Shelly, a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation,
an Integrative Enneagram Accredited Practitioner,
and a shero-in-training just like you!
Do you long of being an important part of something bigger than yourself?
That’s my life story:
- first, as the youngest kid in a big, loud, hilarious, hard-working farming family;
- then, as a seeker of beauty, truth and wisdom as a student of theology;
- next as a tenacious, though
tiny bitdown right self-righteous activist and advocate for people who are poor; - and now as the mom of four, spouse to my very best friend, and seeker of other beloved community-builders wherever I go.
Here’s what I love:
- Anthropomorphic animals: a llama wearing spectacles? Yes. Hearing a dog’s inner monologue? Please!
- Old barns – bonus points if they have a stone foundation.
- Walking along a riverbank or by the Greatest of Lakes. #freshcoast
- Hearing my kids laugh.
- Any competition – though I draw the line at food eating contests.
But what I love most? People ready to get to work for a more compassionate world – and who know working on themselves is where they must start.
I might be the coach for you because:
- As a coach, I am committed to holding you as the expert in your own life. You are capable, resourceful, competent and unshakably good.
- I listen. I challenge you to dig a little deeper. I’m kind and fun and bring lightheartedness to the process of inner work.
- I geek out on the Enneagram (and how it integrates so naturally with Internal Family Systems) as a powerful tool for transformation and healthier relationships.
- I have five years of experience as an Emotional Wellness Coach, trained in Cognitive Behavioral Coaching and ACT coaching practices AND I bring a Healing Focused and trauma informed approach to my work.
Professional Experience
- 25+ years of leadership experience in nonprofit organizations – coaching, facilitating, training, serving
- Professional Certified Coach, accredited by the International Coach Federation (educated at the UWCPC)
- Integrative Enneagram Accredited Practitioner (IEQ9)
- Capacitar Trauma Healing and Transformation Practitioner
- Instinctual Trauma Response (ITR) Practitioner (certification in process)
- Bachelor’s Degree in Theology and Justice and Peace Studies, Creighton University (Go Jays!)
This I know:
- Putting our core values into action regularly is the best kind of self-care.
- Self-compassion is a superpower – and one you can learn to use at any age.
- Self-awareness and commitment to growth is the best gift you can give those you parent, lead and love.
- It is vital to know the difference between discomfort and pain.
- Courage and kindness are contagious, and good Lord, do we need both right now. More humor and creativity, too, please!
The work we need to do – as individuals and as a community – is a heavy lift. But we don’t need to do it alone.
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